From My Window By Yvonne Hollenbeck
Wednesday, June 10, 2026
Anyone that ever grew up on a farm or ranch, has ever lived on one, or are currently doing so, has had an experience that is possibly not a happy one involving the opening or shutting of a gate. Barbed wire gates that are attached to a sturdy post of some sort are the worst kind. A friend, Larry Larson of Rapid City, posted a series of videos depicting the life of a ranch woman experiencing the gate-opening ordeal. That video, although intended to be humorous, was spot-on accurate about the stages of her experience. It began with courtship, where the fellow gets out, opens the gate, drives through, then gets out and shuts the gate while she watches this polite young man in the process. Then comes the engagement era where he apparently is prepping on the fine art of working a gate. Next is the newlywed stage where he lets her out to handle the gate opening and shutting process. She did well. Lastly, well into the marriage where “getting the gates” is part of her wifely duties, whether or not in the company of the husband. In this last video, he is shown driving the ranch rig, she is trying to close a gate that is way too tight for her, he finally gets out to assist and the argument ensues.